2017 started out a little...well...slow. I woke up with a
massive headache. There was a problem
with every item I ordered for my New Year's Day brunch. And I was planning another
research trip across the globe to Guinea, with no idea on where I would stay or
how I would event get out of the airport! Sure, these were all minor problems
in the context of life, but on the first day of what I decided would be a
fabulous new year, they kind of sucked.
Day 2 of the new year
continued this trend, though I was determined to keep a positive attitude. I
couldn’t sleep a wink on my disappointing United Airlines flight. The terrible
food was topped only by the melted butter that spilled all over my favorite
sweater. I was hungry and tired (a terrible combination for me). I mean really – seriously! – I exclaimed aloud as a looked to the
ceiling of the airplane – Can’t I
get a break?!
Just when I was
ready to give up on the new year, I ran into a friend on my second flight to
Guinea (one of the two Americans there that I know). It was unbelievably
serendipitous - she was sitting in a cabin in front of mine but came on the
flight late and had to look for storage in the back for her suitcase,
"coincidentally" passing by my seat. We had great conversation and
have stayed connected almost daily in my first week back abroad.
And, as soon as we got off
the aircraft, another “miracle” occurred. I was telling my friend there
would be no VIP treatment this time, and would you believe that my host from
last summer who didn’t even know my flight schedule came to the airport to get
me and arranged my housing again?
The past week-and-a-half
have been fraught with these moments of extreme distress and frustration
followed by unbelievable comfort and joy. A terrible cold/flu that kept me
homebound during my first week back in Guinea was met with friends who passed
by to check on me and even brought me soup! A failed start with my old research
assistant was replaced with the hope of a new one in within 24 hours. And as a recent
visit with one of my research participants from last June (and several members of her family) today
revealed, my network here may not be huge, but it is quality.
I’ll probably still
have an existential crisis tomorrow. I’ll probably worry endlessly and maybe
even shed some tears over the mishaps that will inevitably come. But I’ll also
refer to this blog post repeatedly to remind myself that there is a plan so
much bigger than me that has already been put in place, and that it really is
all going to be more than okay.
This is Take 1 Take
2 Take 3 of 2017, which promises to be the most fabulous year yet! It's the
year of Fitness, Fashion, and Fun (my personal mantra for this
year). It's the year of finishing my dissertation (pleasssse be the year of
finishing my dissertation!). It's the year of blessings to be received and
shared and enjoyed.
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2016 ended well with a little Mickey time... |
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...a little family time... |
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...and of course a fabulous NYE selfie! |